The few days we had together were mainly spent hanging around the house. I did help her unload her truck some to help organize what stuff needed to go to the attic and what needed to go to Goodwill. Theresa had a job interview on Monday, so I took Enidina (Nina) to Chuck E. Cheese for a couple hours.
We just went from game to game, earning tickets galore, and just having the time of our lives. I'd say it was good practice for me in knowing a little bit of what to expect as a parent- potty breaks, potty accidents, and hungry tummies all included.
To tell you the truth, Theresa doesn't feel like she has much support from her parents in a lot of the things that she does with her little girl...I mean, what parent does NOT think that their way is the best way to raise a child, right? But I just want to make one thing clear: I saw the way she interacted with Nina, and the way Nina talks to her and other people...Nina's behavior in general...and I think Theresa is doing a SUPERB job in raising her daughter!! Sure, they have rough spots along the journey of life, but that's bound to happen to everyone at some point. With all that's happened and everything included, I don't think that it's possible for anyone to be doing better with Nina than Theresa is doing right now. So, will all of you who are out there in web-land give a little applause to this fabulous mommy! She's really doing a great job, and trust me, I've seen a lot of mommies in my day! ;)
I had a great time in Maryland, and I'm glad Theresa and Nina let me come and stay with them for a few days. Theresa was so excited for me for the little girly things that Mark just doesn't really get excited over...and to just bond again...*sighs*...it was good to see her, and I'm sorry to say that it will be a while before I can see her again. (Too bad I have these strange smiles in these pictures...)
As for Mark's trip to New Orleans, he left Sunday and came back on Saturday. It was a long trip, but oh, how he enjoyed the nice weather of the South! He was in shorts and t-shirts all week long, and was not looking forward to coming back to the 30 degree weather of Boston...even though it was very nice for New England standards, thank you very much. Mark spent the week conducting a survey regarding the housing projects for those affected by Hurricane Katrina. You'll probably need to hear from him the details of what he did and what he learned, but he said that it was a very eye-opening week for him. He learned quite a bit about the culture of the communities down there, and he was surprised at how readily the people declare their faith in Christ to everyone about everything in life. He seemed to be very grateful for the experience and really enjoyed his time there. Too much time was spent away from his homework...knowing how much he has to do, but all in all it was a good trip. He learned that he really is different from so many people when he chooses to not participate in clubbing and going to bars. It seemed to take a while, but he eventually was able to become comfortable with the crowd he was with and didn't feel so much like an outsider. Yet, he was glad to come home...and be with me! yay :)
People asked me if I missed him during the week that he was gone, but with my own trip to MD, and the feeling of what it was like when Mark was gone for 8 weeks over the summer...this one week felt like nothing to me. Sure, I'd rather be with him than away from him, but an entire week doesn't seem to phase me anymore...is that a bad thing? I guess it will depend on the week, won't it? That will probably change when I have a child to worry about and not have his help with the housework. Yeah...that seems a bit scarier.
He brought home some pretty cool souvenirs too!! Pictures of those to come later...maybe in my next post! Happy St. Patrick's Day!!
